Saturday, March 8, 2008

?80-20?

Ever heard of the 80-20 rule for relationships?

Well, if you haven't it goes a little something like this....

80% equals the person that you are with currently with. This person makes you happy and you know it. Sometimes there may be periods where things just aren't going right, but you find a way to resolve the issues. You love this person.

20% equals a person that you may think is better than what you already have. Now, this person entertains you and seems like the perfect person for you. You may even be thinking of pursuing this person.

Now, lets say that you decide to pursue the 20% thinking you will be better off. Later now down the line you find out the hard way that your 80% was what you really wanted and now need back. What do you do?

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